
Where To Put God: Character
The sermon centers on the question of where God belongs in a believer’s character, using the transition from King David to King Solomon in 1 Kings 2–3 as a warning and a guide. The preacher explains that David’s final words to Solomon carry urgency because David understands something deeply important: a legacy of faith does not automatically continue unless the next generation intentionally walks with God. David’s charge is not simply about Solomon becoming successful as a king—it is about Solomon becoming the kind of man whose life stays aligned with God’s Word. David commands Solomon to be strong, to “show thyself a man,” and to walk in God’s ways by keeping His statutes, commandments, judgments, and testimonies. The message emphasizes that David is pointing Solomon beyond personality, tradition, or family identity and toward something higher: the authority of God’s Word as the foundation for lasting spiritual prosperity.
The preacher pauses to reflect on David’s life, acknowledging that David was remarkable in many ways—devoted, expressive, artistic, courageous, and remembered as a man after God’s own heart. Yet the sermon refuses to romanticize David. Instead, it highlights that David was inconsistent, and that inconsistency caused real damage. David’s failures included poor leadership in his home, consequences tied to sin, and moments of disobedience even late in life (such as numbering the people when God told him not to). The point is not to condemn David but to show why Scripture includes such detail: even godly people can be “sketchy”, and what matters is what those patterns pass down. The preacher stresses a key idea: children don’t only learn from what parents teach; they also absorb what parents do inconsistently. Inconsistency becomes a form of instruction—often louder than words. This is why the sermon calls parents and spiritual leaders to take character seriously, because the next generation will notice where faith is strong, where it is selective, and where it is missing.
Moving to Solomon, the sermon explains that Solomon begins with real spiritual potential. Scripture says Solomon loved the Lord and walked in the statutes of David his father, which indicates he had a genuine connection to God and learned spiritual habits from David. However, the sermon draws attention to the dangerous phrase that follows: “Only he sacrificed and burnt incense in high places.” The preacher explains that “high places” were locations associated with false worship, meaning Solomon’s devotion was mixed. Solomon’s problem wasn’t that he rejected God; it was that he included other influences alongside God, allowing compromise to coexist with devotion. The preacher argues that David’s inconsistency did not merely teach Solomon weakness—it created a flawed foundation, where Solomon’s character didn’t just wobble; it became spiritually unstable. Solomon tried to love God while also honoring what God forbids, and the sermon presents this as a defining pattern of Solomon’s life: excess, indulgence, and lack of restraint, later seen in his pursuits, achievements, and ultimately his massive number of wives and concubines. The preacher’s takeaway is clear: you don’t drift into strong character. Character doesn’t arrive by accident—it must be pursued, guarded, and built intentionally.
A major warning is drawn from 1 Kings 3:1, where Solomon forms an “affinity” with Pharaoh, king of Egypt, and marries Pharaoh’s daughter. The sermon explains that Egypt represents “the world” spiritually, and Solomon’s “affinity” shows a natural attraction to worldly alignment. This becomes the pattern: one misplaced affection leads to another decision, and that decision leads to another form of worship. Solomon’s marriage choice is portrayed as more than political strategy; it becomes a spiritual turning point because Egypt worshiped many gods, not the God of Israel. The sermon argues that Solomon’s compromise begins with affection—what he allows himself to admire and be drawn toward. The preacher emphasizes that influences are never neutral: what a person feeds their mind and heart will shape the way they worship, what they believe, and how they live. He warns against shallow or ungrounded spiritual influences—teaching that looks impressive but lacks depth—because those ideas will eventually shape worship and doctrine in subtle but serious ways.
From this story, the preacher lays out a key directive: put God at the center of your obedience. Returning to David’s instruction in 1 Kings 2:3, he highlights the word “keep,” describing it like a military command—to guard, to stand watch, to protect what matters so nothing slips through. The sermon frames Christian living as spiritual warfare, not passive routine. Believers are called to “fight the good fight of faith,” meaning faithfulness requires effort, resistance, and discipline. This leads to another strong theme: partial obedience is not obedience. The preacher illustrates this with a parenting example—if a child completes some instructions but refuses one, the child has not truly obeyed. In the same way, believers can’t treat Scripture like helpful suggestions to accept or ignore. The sermon repeatedly challenges the mindset that says, “I know what the Bible says, but…” because that reveals a heart that sees God’s Word as optional instead of authoritative. Obedience is presented as proof of love—love for God must show up in consistent submission, not selective compliance.
The sermon also explains that prosperity follows alignment with God, not mere ambition. A person can want spiritual growth or a better life, but if their daily choices are aligned with self, comfort, or fleshly desire, their ambition won’t produce the outcome they claim to seek. The preacher uses a humorous picture of someone claiming they want to improve while continuing habits that contradict their goals. The point is serious: what you want doesn’t matter if your alignment is off. This is applied spiritually—people can desire blessings, maturity, or purpose, but if they refuse the discipline of obedience, their character will remain weak. The sermon calls believers to let Scripture govern decisions precisely because people (including pastors) can fail, but God and His Word do not.
Even while warning about Solomon’s inconsistency, the sermon notes something Solomon did inherit well: humility. In 1 Kings 3:7–9, Solomon recognizes his limitations and prays for wisdom, admitting he is like a child and cannot lead such a great people without God’s help. The preacher defines true humility carefully. Humility is not self-hatred, constant negative talk, or calling yourself worthless. He describes that as an “inverted pride,” where a person is still consumed with self—just in the negative direction. True humility, instead, is accurate self-awareness: knowing what you are, what you are not, what you need, and what God can do. The sermon emphasizes that God has made people with real gifts and abilities, and denying that is not humility—it is failure to acknowledge God’s design. Humility means recognizing God’s work in you and depending on Him to use it for His glory.
In closing, the sermon calls the church to consistent character rooted in obedience and humility. It urges believers—especially leaders, parents, and teachers—to build lives where God is not placed on the side as tradition or routine, but at the center as authority. The preacher’s burden is generational: that faith would not end with one person’s walk but would continue forward, strengthened rather than weakened, because the next generation saw not just religious habits but a consistent life governed by God’s Word.





















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